Labels – Who Needs Them? Hello Friends! All through this site, I will probably throw around words and labels that you may or may not have heard of. Below are some of the labels that I consider my core identity labels – and what each of those labels means to me. Please understand this is…
Kat Reviews – Fat Folks Can For my very first local review, I thought I’d focus on a local, queer owned business that I get all my favorite masks from. Christine, owner of Fat Folks Can, is a sewing wizard and has a great eye for fabrics and patterns. Their masks have become my…
Poly Flavors Because I regularly talk about being polyamorous, and often refer to having two partners, many people have asked if we consider ourselves a triad. In my current relationship, we do not consider ourselves a triad. That answer often leads to a discussion about the many different types and flavors of polyamory. So I…
CONTENT WARNING This post talks about mental health topics that may include depression, anxiety, suicidal ideation, and other potentially triggering topics. This post talks about mental health experiences that are my lived experiences. I do not speak for anyone else. I am not a medical professional in any capacity. Mental Health Musings January 25, 2022…
Queer News In The Media Trans Woman Makes Jeopardy History Let’s Talk GLAAD Nominations What’s Kat Watching? Trans Woman Breaks Another Jeopardy Record Way to go Amy! If you are a Jeopardy fan like I am, then you have likely already seen Amy Schneider in action. She is amazingly smart, quick on the buzzer…
Long Distance Is Not Easy January 22, 2022 No matter how long you’ve been at this, long distance relationships – mono or poly – are never easy. Today one of my partners drove away and it sucked. There’s no sugar coating that. I’m sad, and both partners are sad, and Izzy already misses him. (So…
Garden 2021 After we beautified the yard with rainbows, we got inspired to really make our yard a place we love to be. My partner got into gardening and these photos are all from our yard in the Summer of 2021. He planted a LOT more for 2022 and we can’t wait to see how…
About Poly Symbols The first is a traditional flag. The blue flag stands for open and honesty, the red stands for love and passion, and the black represents solidarity. The second is the heart and infinity symbol – standing for infinite love. This symbol may be in the original black/blue/red colors, or it may come…
Real. Queer. Authentic and Approachable Real topics, real experiences Queer and Poly Issues Kat’s Chats A New Beginning Welcome to Kat’s Chats. This blog is the corner of Kat’s Big Gay Yard where I can talk to you. About whatever comes to mind! I have lived in the Rochester area my whole life. I have…
