Labels

Labels – Who Needs Them? Hello Friends! All through this site, I will probably throw around words and labels that you may or may not have heard of.  Below are some of the labels that I consider my core identity labels – and what each of those labels means to me.  Please understand this is…

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Poly Flavors

Poly Flavors Because I regularly talk about being polyamorous, and often refer to having two partners, many people have asked if we consider ourselves a triad. In my current relationship, we do not consider ourselves a triad. That answer often leads to a discussion about the many different types and flavors of polyamory.  So I…

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Mental Health Musings

CONTENT WARNING This post talks about mental health topics that may include depression, anxiety, suicidal ideation, and other potentially triggering topics.  This post talks about mental health experiences that are my lived experiences. I do not speak for anyone else. I am not a medical professional in any capacity. Mental Health Musings January 25, 2022…

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Long Distance Woes

Long Distance Is Not Easy January 22, 2022 No matter how long you’ve been at this, long distance relationships – mono or poly – are never easy. Today one of my partners drove away and it sucked. There’s no sugar coating that. I’m sad, and both partners are sad, and Izzy already misses him. (So…

Kat Chats

Real. Queer. Authentic and Approachable Real topics, real experiences Queer and Poly Issues Kat’s Chats A New Beginning Welcome to Kat’s Chats.  This blog is the corner of Kat’s Big Gay Yard where I can talk to you. About whatever comes to mind! I have lived in the Rochester area my whole life. I have…